A
fundamental step in the process of learning how to quit smoking is plain old
practice is a must. Smoking cessation can't be rushed, so try to relax and
think of time as your quit buddy. The more of it that you put between you and
that last cigarette you smoked, the stronger you'll become. We spent years
learning to associate smoking with literally every activity in our lives, good,
bad or indifferent. Unlearning those associations takes time and
practice.
So, it’s
true that people quit smoking every day without the benefit of this forum. I
believe, though, and I can’t imagine who would disagree, that support is vital
to smoke-freedom for most. The articles that you can access from the site home
and the posts here will reinforce your resolve. Education is key and essential
for long-term success.
I’ll say it again…quitting smoking cigarettes is not easy. It’s exhausting at times, and there are mood swings and minds games, and it is all part of the process of becoming someone who is not a slave to cigarettes. Quitting smoking is not easy, but is it easier that living with or dying from a smoking-related illness. It can be tiring, but not as tiring as chemotherapy and radiation treatments. It takes some effort, but not as much effort as it takes some to try to take their next breath. If you are in your 20’s or 30’s and think you have decades to smoke before you do any real damage, please think again. It is about perspective, and as you progress through this process, your perspective will change. Mine has…for the better and forever.
We have become a society who demands instant gratification, and patience has gone by the wayside. I believe some things are still worth waiting for, and I KNOW that smoke-freedom is one of them. The veterans who stick around here do so because we know how great it feels to be smoke-free. It does get better, and it does get easier, and you owe it to yourselves to give yourselves however long it takes to feel good about being smoke-free.
So…rant, whine, scream…whatever it takes to get you from where you are to where you want to be, but PLEASE DON’T SMOKE! I promise that quitting smoking will not kill you, and if you let it, it can even be one of the most amazing experiences of your life.